Buenos Aires, Argentina
A funny thing happened on the way to Argentina: my socioeconomic status changed. Growing up in the States, I, like most of my friends and classmates, was middle/upper-middle class. I never wanted for anything, and often got exactly what I wanted, probably because I never asked for too much. As is common to my social class, I learned that what you have does not define who you are, the value of hard work and earning your own allowance, and to judge the way that other people spend their money. This middle class doctrine was only compounded by the quasi-Socialist values of the liberal, intellectual college town where I was born and raised. Imagine my surprise when I moved to South America, and my assortment of iPods, brand name clothes, passport stamps, and Bat Mitzvah savings all catapulted me into the upper class, albeit the lower-upper class.
Because Buenos Aires looks and feels like a major European city, it can be hard to remember that it is the capital of a developing country. At the beginning of the 20th century, Argentina was one of the world’s ten richest countries, an economic powerhouse with per capita income similar to that of France or Germany. Despite its strong start, during the past century the country was plagued with financial instability, thanks in large part to a turbulent political situation. However, during the 1990s, with the peso pegged to the dollar, Argentina had one of the fastest growing economies in the world. Citizens were once again wealthy at home and abroad.
Then, in 2001, Argentina suffered a disastrous economic crisis. Convertibility ended and the peso depreciated significantly leading to inflation, as Argentina had no way of quickly compensating for its dependence on inexpensive foreign imports. By 2002, Buenos Aires was considered one of the cheapest cities in Latin America. The previous year, it had been the most expensive. Even though the Argentine economy has rebounded sharply in the past five years, growing at an average rate of 8.5%, prices are rising and people are struggling. Argentina is like one of those families who continues to keep up appearances after the father gambles away the family fortune, both reluctant to lose its place in high society and confident in its ability to stage a comeback.
Buenos Aires remains a beautiful, even luxurious place, but fewer are those who can afford to take advantage of what it has to offer, and many of them are not from around here. It used to bother me the way that wealthy Westerners have converted Buenos Aires into the world’s hottest outlet mall, capitalizing on the city’s supply of high style and quality at low cost. But even if it was not my intention to profit from the misfortune of an entire nation, I, too, have benefited from Argentina’s financial woes.
The quality of my life in Buenos Aires has been far greater than it would have been in the United States or Europe, under similar conditions. I have been able to treat myself to dinners at fancy restaurants, late-night taxis, scuba vacations, apartments in the nicest neighborhoods, and classes at the top dance and yoga studios. Not all the time or every day, but enough. And my lifestyle has been financed with nothing more than the money I made as a summer intern at an international consulting firm before moving abroad, and, later, a generous nonprofit salary.
My partners in consumption are either fellow expats or members of the country’s elite. Amazingly, although absolute measures of wealth may vary from country to country, social class stereotypes remain constant. Having a roommate in Argentina is uncommon, as most young people can’t afford to leave home. Argentines willing and able to open their doors to a stranger are often those whose parents have purchased them a spacious apartment, among other things, and want to fill the extra space and earn extra spending money. I have watched such roommates eat Ramen noodles with a silver spoon, because they don’t know how to cook, and I have seen mothers come over to do the dishes and drop off dry cleaning. On one occasion I heard a roommate chastise a houseguest for leaving clothes to dry in the living room, because, “it makes us look like we’re from the ghetto.”
Finding friends who share the same financial situation, background, and social values, priorities, and interests has been challenging. I am neither obsessed with appearances nor incapable of caring for myself, and the assumptions can be aggravating. A group of Argentine girls once confessed to a British friend of mine that they don’t eat fast food because they couldn’t be seen in “places like that.” Since my friend is from London, they imagined she shared their snobbery, failing to realize that she routinely finishes her Saturday night with a Big Mac and fries. If I comment on how expensive an item is, the store clerk inevitably reminds me that it’s cheap in dollars. Leaving me to explain that I don’t have dollars, I earn and spend in pesos. And people quickly assume that my parents are maintaining me. Maybe I am well-educated, traveled, and dressed, but I am not a rich kid at heart. We may dine at the same restaurants, shop at the same stores, and live in the same neighborhood, but we got there in very different ways. Or did we?
Recently, I have come to the conclusion that I am more spoiled, and more of a brat than I would care to admit. Thanks to my parents, I have no student loans, and following graduation, I had free room, board, and car insurance, enabling me to save for my trip abroad. My financial freedom is backed by my parents’ dual income, and the knowledge that my bedroom has not yet been converted into a study. I am notoriously careless with my possessions: dropping new cell phones in rivers, eating and drinking in front of my computer, and heaping dirty clothes in piles on the floor. Partly because I am lazy and partly because I know that these things can be replaced. After all, it’s only money.
Since moving to South America, I have wrestled feelings of guilt; for having so much while so many people have too little and, more importantly, for being ungrateful of what I have and taking my privilege for granted. Growing up, I never felt relatively deprived, but I never felt relatively wealthy either. I now understand that much of what for me is an expectation is a luxury to the rest of the world.
These past few months, I have had to cut back in order to stay within my budget. I walk or take the bus, I cook instead of eat out, and I don’t shop or go to the movies. I’ve also become domesticated, hanging up and folding, making my bed, and scrubbing the bathroom floor. I’ve learned to take responsibility for and pride in my belongings and to make the most of less. At some point, I even considered renouncing the pursuit of worldly pleasures. But, then I realized that having just enough to survive is not just stressful, it’s lonely, because you have nothing left to share.
Fortunately, my reality is not one of subsistence. While I don’t want it to be one of excess, either, I do want to be able to go out for drinks with friends, have space for houseguests, and treat those people who have taken care of me to dinner. I like being able to do nice things for the people I care about, and that requires resources. Besides, you are no help to anyone else if all of your time, energy, and money are focused on you and your own survival. And sure, I don’t need pretty things, but I want them, because there is nothing wrong with having beauty in your life, especially if you appreciate it. I guess it’s a good thing my mother’s coming to visit me in a week.
Import-Export: Clearing Customs
Published February 5, 2009 Argentina , Clearing Customs , Moving Abroad , Social Commentary , Thoughts Leave a CommentTags: Argentina, living abroad, Personal, Thoughts, Travel
Like most expats, I run my own private black market. Every time I go home or someone comes to Buenos Aires, there is always a wish list and a Target shopping spree involved. Everything I need, I can buy in Buenos Aires. But there are products from the United States that I simply cannot live without. Some items are unavailable or scarce in Argentina (such as contact solution, peanut butter, and decent chewing gum) while others are higher priced and of lower quality here (such as any electronic devise). (Once, at the Apple store in Buenos Aires, I overheard a salesclerk ask a young girl who wanted to purchase a new iPod, “Do any of your friends or family members fly to the States often?”)
With my mom coming to visit tomorrow, I’ve been compiling a new set of demands. Unfortunately for me but luckily for my mother’s bank account, I’ve been limited this time by the fact that I’m soon leaving for New Zealand. But past lists have included everything from York Peppermint Patties to underwear from Victoria’s Secret to Oprah’s magazine to running shoes. Thanks to a recent accident involving headphones hitting me in the eye while I was running outside in the rain, I had to place a last minute order for a right contact lens. (Seriously, how does this kind of thing always happen to me?)
For the most part, the goods that I request are strictly for personal consumption, but I have been known to import occasionally on a friend’s behalf. Always with the understanding that I am not responsible for lost, theft, damage, or confiscation. Most people don’t travel frequently and buying online is rarely an option, as most places won’t ship abroad and only accept internationally recognized credit cards. Plus, Argentines are only allowed to bring back $300 worth of items. If they are caught with more, they are forced to pay a “tax” of 50% of the excess value. Americans, on the other hand, can bring as much as they want, as long as it’s for individual use (which explains why computers, cameras, and cell phones are delivered without the box).
Successfully clearing customs is neither an art nor a science. It’s dumb luck. Every time I cross a border, I am reminded of Mexico’s “Red Light-Green Light” system: if you have “nothing to declare,” you push a button. If the light is green, you pass without inspection. If the light is red, you spend the next hour trying to shove everything back into your suitcase. When I first arrived in Buenos Aires, my mother and I were each carrying three pieces of luggage. We pushed our baggage cart to the customs checkpoint like two drunken teenagers grocery shopping for midnight snacks. The officials took one look at us, laughed, and waved us through. On all subsequent trips, they have x-rayed my checked luggage, but never my carry-on.
There is just no telling when or where you will have a problem. When I flew to Cartagena, Colombia via Bogotá, my bags were checked through to my final destination, and I never had to clear customs. When I returned from Bolivia by foot (buses drop you off right before the border), there were dogs sniffing suitcases and officials searching handbags. Even though I was not engaged in any suspicious behavior, I got nervous. Before the woman could form her first question, I blurted out in Spanish, “I’m not carrying anything back from Bolivia.” “Nothing?” she asked, eyebrow cocked. “Nada,” I repeated. She let me pass without so much as unzipping my backpack. Of course, I couldn’t help but mutter, “except for six kilos of coke in my bag.” Thankfully, I was well out of earshot.
More than any other country that I have visited, Chile takes livestock and agriculture seriously. When a girl on my bus, who didn’t speak Spanish and didn’t understand the instructions to throw away food items, was caught with an orange, it was confiscated, and she was searched and made to pay a fine. I never did understand the obsession with produce and petting farms until I read on the Department of Homeland Security website that “prohibited agricultural items can harbor foreign animal and plant pests and diseases that could seriously damage America’s crops, livestock, pets, and the environment – and a large sector of our country’s economy.” Honestly, I don’t know how drug smugglers do it. Having a banana in my bag is enough to make me sweat.
The mail is no safer or easier. In Buenos Aires, all large packages must be retrieved from the international post office, located near the bus terminal. The process goes something like this: a delivery notice arrives to your house days after the package arrives, always on a Friday. You go the post office between the hours of 10am-5pm and draw a ticket with a letter-number combination, like C17. They are on A28. After waiting to be called, you produce a photo ID and pay a storage fee. You are then assigned a new, seven-digit number. You pass to the next room where you sit on a plastic chair similar to those you had in elementary school and wait your turn. Inevitably, you fail to recognize your number, and have to be summoned by name. They bring out your package, possibly opening it, possibly not, you sign a form, possibly paying a customs tax, possibly not, and you leave two hours later with a cardboard box full of towels and cereal.
At least in those instances I always received my package. A birthday present from a friend went missing for months, until one day I found a ransom note under my door. It turns out that it had been delivered to my neighbor’s father’s house in a different province. The following year, my mother mailed me a gift but decided against insurance. Somewhere, there is an Argentine postal worker with a green iPod shuffle.
When you move abroad, you know that you have to sacrifice some of your prized possessions, adapt to local brands, styles, and flavors, and make do with what is available. But in order to be fully comfortable and feel at home in your host country, it helps to have a few of your favorite things. So, if you want to smuggle or send items abroad, just remember: whenever possible, ask an American girl to be your mule; remove electronics from their packaging; put contraband in your carry-on; avoid zoos and apple orchards before traveling; pay for a tracking number; act cool, and always carry extra cash. Most importantly, don’t get too attached to your purchases, because they are likely going home with a customs agent.